posted by
averita at 11:38am on 20/12/2012
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It's the time of the year for year-end memes! But that's not what I'm posting today.
While visiting last weekend,
own_the_sky,
37_soul_sister,
samcasey, and I were lamenting the loss of LJ in our daily lives. Twitter is great, Tumblr is fun, even Facebook has its moments, but none of these sites allow for the same level of interaction and personal connection that LJ does. This is the site that I came to for intelligent discussion about television as well as incoherent flailing about my favorite ships; more than that, it used to be the best way of keeping up with my friends and the happenings of their lives.
Those days are gone, or at the very least, dying rapidly; I don't post nearly as much as I used to, and when I do, it's more for my own sake than because I expect people to be reading it. I'd love for them to come back, because I do miss the closeness and community that sites like Tumblr - for all their merits - can't hope to replicate. That said, that's not why I'm posting either.
A lot of people have simply gotten out of the habit of updating, and after a month, or two, or six, or even a year has gone by, it might feel weird to suddenly reappear. That's what I'm asking you to do: reappear. If this gives you an excuse to do it, so be it! One entry by the end of the year. Talk about whatever you want - what have you been up to? What are you watching these days? If this is your last post ever, how can we keep in touch? Post the end of the year memes if you'd like. I just think it would be really excellent to see my flist full of posts I actually care about rather than just random communities.
(PS: Please link/otherwise nudge me if you decide to participate! And feel free to share this link if you want to get your friends involved.)
While visiting last weekend,
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Those days are gone, or at the very least, dying rapidly; I don't post nearly as much as I used to, and when I do, it's more for my own sake than because I expect people to be reading it. I'd love for them to come back, because I do miss the closeness and community that sites like Tumblr - for all their merits - can't hope to replicate. That said, that's not why I'm posting either.
A lot of people have simply gotten out of the habit of updating, and after a month, or two, or six, or even a year has gone by, it might feel weird to suddenly reappear. That's what I'm asking you to do: reappear. If this gives you an excuse to do it, so be it! One entry by the end of the year. Talk about whatever you want - what have you been up to? What are you watching these days? If this is your last post ever, how can we keep in touch? Post the end of the year memes if you'd like. I just think it would be really excellent to see my flist full of posts I actually care about rather than just random communities.
(PS: Please link/otherwise nudge me if you decide to participate! And feel free to share this link if you want to get your friends involved.)
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I am always here... even though it does feel like LJ is slowly dying... and I'm always hoping to see something pop up that is not simply a community post.
I like Twitter... love it, in fact, and use it a lot... and Facebook, much to my chagrin, has grown on me... but, when all is said and done... LJ is my internet home.
Even with all the stupid changes they keep making... I love it here too much, and will remain here until LJ finally does go the way of the dinosaur...
*hugs*
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In the new year, I'm definitely going to try to post (and comment!) more often, because I love having my own record even if no one else is reading it,
I do hope you do! (I'll randomly poke you... *g*)
As much as Tumblr is... well, fun, I guess (I still don't get it.) And Twitter is a riot... FB is okay too... I find I can be more of myself on LJ even if "tayryn" is just persona I made up for using online. I say things in my LJ that I would never ever say on FB. OMGS... I'd be shot if I did. Here I know I am safe... and many of yous understand so tis all good.
And yeah, it is nice to have that record of the happenings in our lives.
I don't post nearly as often as I used to... I am pretty much a once a week kinda girl right now... but somedays, I have that urge and end up spamming... and while I do hope my friends are still reading... I post for me... for my peace of mind... whether tis a rant or a meme...
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Tumblr is an acquired taste, and definitely not for everyone. There are parts of it that I really love, but it's entirely public and not especially interactive. It's definitely easy to get swept away in the pretty graphics and the hysteria, but I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of the more thoughtful fandom enjoyment that way (not to mention the rl element).
I'm not as on top of reading my flist as I used to be, but I'm going through and cleaning out communities/etc. that are just taking up space, so I hope to be better! I'm glad that you're still posting for you, and I will continue reading, and hopefully commenting more. ♥
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*hugs*
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And yes, I do feel like a hypocrite saying all of this because I've been posting pretty infrequently, but at least we're trying. It may be beating a dead horse but I don't really care, I've been happy here for a long time!
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I agree about the other social media sites - the ones where your entry has got to be short and to the point (or sometimes not contain words at all). They don't let us all talk properly anymore. It feels odd to have a serious discussion on there, and fandom-wise, you always have to think about who else in your life might be reading!! It gets... mixed up.
I also think the limited-length thing has taken a toll. Now, if you write even a 300-word LJ entry, it seems like people will label it TL;DR. I write entries all the time, and then edit them to death so they will be succinct and not annoy anyone or require a cut, and then it's just not worth posting anymore, because they're no longer what I wanted to say.
What I do want to say here is that I think this "reappear" scheme of yours is a really good idea! I'm going to do it, and to hell with the fears about length and boringness! I will, however, be running a private pool on how few comments I will get, LOL.
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Agreed on all points, even those that I hadn't considered. You're absolutely right about the limited length thing - I used to write much more than I do now (even if it really WAS TL;DR!) and looking back at this past year, I wonder if I'm going to regret how little I've included. But like you say, to hell with it - if no one's reading anyway, then at least we've got it for ourselves!
I mentioned in a comment that if there's interest - and there seems to be - I might start a community for the new year that people can track and get email reminders/posting prompts. It would be great to see some more activity, even if it's just a few people.
To that end, do you mind if I friend you? God knows I've seen you around for years, and the more the merrier in this endeavor!
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if no one's reading anyway, then at least we've got it for ourselves!
You know, that's a very good point.
This community idea could be very interesting, especially the prompt angle. One other side effect of the lack of activity is that there are no memes to steal or discussions going on. I was never a big meme-er, but sometimes they are really fun to read and do. Maybe people don't post because they don't know what to say...?
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I've always been terrible about keeping diaries and journals, and it was the interactive aspect of LJ that really got me started. Now I'm coming up on 1000 entries and I love being able to go back over the past few years of my life and see how I've evolved, so yes, I definitely plan to keep posting at least semi-regularly just for that reason!
I'm glad to see there's some interest. I think one key element would be getting people to track it so that updates could go directly to their email - less pressure to dig through their flist at first, though hopefully more updates would make that less of a chore. I'll need to think on it -reminders, challenges ("comment three times this week!", etc.), discussion threads, prompts, what have you. I might run some ideas by you soon!
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2012 has been a weird year for me - it started out fantastic; I felt great, loved my life and my job but it all changed this fall. Now everything is horrible and all I can hope for is that it can't get any worse now and that I find a new job next year. At least I'm lucky enough to have the best boyfriend and son!
I will definitely update my journal in the next few days. Thanks for reminding me! :)
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I'm so sorry to hear that things have been crappy lately. I really hope things pick up soon, and am glad that your family remains awesome :)
Looking forward to it!
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(That sounded stalkery. I didn't mean it to, lol.)
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Also, the "Flight of the Phoenix" mood theme gif is oddly fitting for this post. :D
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It's funny reading some of the comments - I think at some point post-BSG ending, in my head LJ became the place for RL talk whereas other mediums became the fandom outlets. I was just saying elsewhere, though, that I think the best LJ days were when it was a balance of both. Fandom is fun on Tumblr, etc., but I do miss the actual discussions and thinky thoughts that LJ offered.
I hope that once people start posting more, others will begin to come out of the woodwork as well. Who knows? It's a new year, after all!
(It totally is! I hadn't noticed that. Hee!)